Feeling nervous about your upcoming photo shoot? You're not alone! Many people find themselves a bit tense when it’s time to step in front of the camera. But don’t worry, I’ve got some simple steps to help you loosen up and actually enjoy your photo session.

1. Chat on video with your photographer. Many photographers offer a video chat before the session, and I do this too. It's a great way for you to meet them, see their personality, and feel more comfortable before you even meet in person.

2. Talk about your worries with the photographer. Share how you're feeling openly—I've experienced camera shyness myself, so I truly understand. Often, just having a conversation about your fears can lighten the load and make the upcoming session feel less daunting.

3. Plan the photo shoot together. Collaboration can be key to feeling secure. I like to create a mood board with different shots and ideas, and I encourage you to share your ideas too! Knowing what to expect can calm your nerves and get you excited about the shoot.

4. Bring a friend. Having a buddy with you can make a big difference in how relaxed you feel. Most photographers are completely fine with this; I've had many clients bring friends along. Just make sure to confirm with your photographer beforehand.

5. Don't worry if you're not sure how to pose. It’s normal to feel awkward if you’re not used to modeling. Remember, photographers are professionals at making you look good. They'll guide you through poses and help you look natural, so just focus on having fun!

6. Unsure about what to wear? Your outfit can really influence how confident you feel. If you're unsure, discuss it with your photographer. They can offer suggestions based on the backdrop and lighting, helping you pick something that feels good and looks great in photos.

7. Practice by taking self-portraits. If you're not used to seeing yourself in photos, start by snapping some selfies with your phone. It’s a low-pressure way to get more comfortable in front of the camera. I used to struggle with posting my own pictures, but practicing helped me a lot. Check out my Instagram for some easy self-portrait ideas and maybe get inspired to try some yourself!

By following these steps, you can ease into your photo session with more confidence and hopefully enjoy the process of capturing some beautiful moments.